We are Cynthia and Cody, and we’re grateful you’ve taken the time to read about us. We’re so thankful for the life we’ve built and are honored to open our hearts and home to another child through adoption.

We met on the tennis team in high school in 2005, and what started as a friendship quickly grew into something more. We’ve grown up together—navigating young adulthood, learning from each other, and building a life rooted in love, respect, and faith. 

Cody moved away for college in 2009, and we dated long distance until Cynthia joined him in 2012. In 2013 we were married in a joy-filled ceremony surrounded by family and friends. The length of our relationship has taught us how to communicate honestly, forgive quickly, and find laughter even in hard seasons. Cody is steady and analytical, while Cynthia is expressive and creative, but our differences have made us stronger as a couple.

We’ve experienced deep loss and heartbreak in our desire to grow our family, but in 2019, we became parents through the gift of IUI. Through it all, our faith has carried us, and adoption has become a clear and beautiful path forward. We believe this is our calling, not a second choice or backup plan, but a sacred path that we feel honored to walk. Through the highs and lows, we’ve grown in empathy, faith, and love, and we know we’re not alone. We’ve seen God’s hand in this story, and we trust Him to lead us.

We believe family is formed in many ways—adoption is one of the most beautiful. We are ready and hopeful for what’s ahead.

Cody is steady, kind, and one of the most dependable people I know. He has a calm presence that makes people feel safe, and he approaches life with quiet strength and intentionality. He’s the kind of person who thinks things through, listens carefully, and doesn’t rush—qualities that make him a steady anchor in our home.

He works in IT and enjoys solving problems and building things that help people. He’s reliable and hardworking, but he also knows how to slow down and be fully present with our family. Whether he’s wrestling with our son on the living room floor or reading a bedtime story in funny voices, he shows up with his whole heart.

Cody is the kind of dad who kneels down to listen when our son is upset, and the kind of husband who leaves encouraging notes when he knows the day will be long. He’s not loud or flashy, but his love is deep, steady, and constant. He leads our family with humility, grace, and quiet strength.

One of the things I love most about Cody is his heart. I know without a doubt that any child who joins our home will be deeply loved, seen, and supported by him.

Fun Facts About Cody

• Favorite Hobby: Playing guitar
• Favorite Snack: Cheese
• Weekend Favorite: Being outside
• Known For: fixing anything
• Secret Talent: finding the best dad jokes on the planet

Cynthia is thoughtful, strong, and quietly selfless. Since high school, I’ve been drawn to her steady presence and deep inner strength—qualities that sometimes go unnoticed by others, but have always been incredibly clear to me. She’s an introvert, but I’ve come to see that as one of her greatest strengths. She listens closely, speaks intentionally, and brings a grounded, thoughtful perspective to every relationship.

While I tend to rush or stretch myself too thin, Cynthia knows how to slow things down and focus on what really matters. She is a diamond—sharp, radiant, and deeply valuable.

Cynthia is also an amazing mom. She was made to care for children, and it shows in every interaction with our son, Wes. Whether she’s playing, reading, or comforting him, she’s fully present—ensuring he feels seen, understood, and unconditionally loved. It’s amazing to watch.

She also works with kids professionally (part-time) as a children’s coordinator at our church, a campus we helped launch in 2021. Her heart for children and others runs deep—it’s just who she is.

She’s the cornerstone of our home, gently keeping us grounded in love, traditions, and care. I truly don’t know how I’d do life without her.

Fun Facts About Cynthia

• Favorite Hobby: Working out
• Favorite Snack: Homemade nachos
• Weekend Favorite: Whatever Wes wants to do
• Known For: Caring for friends with food
• Secret Talent: Singing—seriously, she could win American Idol

We live in a cozy, welcoming home located on a quiet cul-de-sac. One of our favorite parts is the large backyard, where we love to play and spend time as a family. It’s also a favorite hangout spot for the neighborhood kids, who often come over to play. Friends and family frequently remark on how warm and inviting our home feels, and we take pride in creating a space where everyone feels comfortable and cared for.

Our kitchen is another favorite spot. We love cooking together, trying new recipes, and hosting friends for casual meals or special celebrations. It’s a space that brings people together and reflects our love for family and fun. The rest of our home mirrors this spirit, with personal touches that show who we are and what matters most to us—family, togetherness, and making the most of every moment. It’s here that we’ve grown as a family and look forward to continuing those traditions with another child.

Our neighborhood is equally special. Living on a cul-de-sac offers the perfect balance of privacy and community. The kids can play outside safely, and it’s a family-friendly area where everyone looks out for each other. There’s a park within walking distance, complete with a splash pad that’s perfect for summer fun. It’s a place where children can explore, make friends, and feel connected to their surroundings, and we can’t wait to share this vibrant environment with another child.

We love our family—they truly mean the world to us, are grounded in love, and always show up in meaningful ways. Even though we don’t all live in the same town, we remain closely connected. Cody’s family enjoys going on magical vacations to Disney World and summer beach trips filled with laughter, games, relaxation and reconnection. When Cynthia’s parents became U.S. citizens, we made a special trip to be with them to honor their hard work.

Throughout our parenting journey, our parents and siblings have been our biggest cheerleaders—praying, encouraging, and offering to help. Their support means everything, and we’re grateful to be surrounded by so much love as we prepare to welcome another child into our lives. Everyone is incredibly excited, eagerly awaiting the opportunity to love, snuggle, and celebrate a new little one.

We’ve been incredibly blessed with deep friendships and a community of friends who feel like family. Over the years, they have shown up for us—bringing meals during illness, helping with last-minute babysitting, praying with us through loss, and celebrating life’s big and small moments. These relationships have grown into something deeper than friendship—they’re our chosen family. It’s a beautiful thing to be surrounded by people who step in with open hearts, ready to support and encourage.

We are deeply rooted in our local church where we serve, learn, and grow alongside people who share our values. Whether it’s gathering for potlucks, cheering on kids at a baseball game, or spending a summer afternoon at the splash pad, our community brings joy and connection to our daily life. We know without a doubt that a child would be deeply loved here.

Our family life is full of joy, connection, and intentional traditions. No matter the season, we love celebrating together and creating meaningful rhythms our children will grow up cherishing.

Spring is filled with celebration! We have several birthdays for family and friends during this season, which keeps our weekends festive. Easter holds a special place in our hearts. We love teaching Wes the story of Jesus’ love and sacrifice in creative ways—one of our favorite traditions is baking “resurrection rolls” together as a family.

Summer is a time to slow down, rest, and make memories. We usually plan a family trip and spend time outdoors—at the beach, splash pad, or park. Sports camps and swim practice help burn off energy, and we always find moments for fun and relaxation in between.

Fall is for football and cozy routines. Cody is a big college football fan (especially Texas A&M!), so Saturdays often include cheering on his team. We also love visiting pumpkin patches, enjoying cooler weather, and starting to think about the holidays ahead.

Winter brings some of our favorite traditions. At Thanksgiving, Cody’s family goes all out with fried turkeys, pies, and homemade sides. Cynthia’s mom makes Nicaraguan tamales—a family recipe that’s been passed down and is loved by all. We follow an Advent calendar in December, and Wes looks forward to opening it each day to find a small surprise or activity as we countdown to Christmas. One of our favorite winter traditions is where the entire park in our town lights up for the season. We love walking the trail as a family, taking in the lights and the joy of the season.

Thank you for taking the time to learn about our family. We can only imagine what this season may feel like for you—but please know we see your courage, strength, and love in even considering an adoption plan. Whether you're walking through this journey on your own or together, we are truly honored that you would take the time to get to know us.

As we think about adding to our family through adoption, we feel both excitement and deep respect. We know this path begins with a birth mother’s brave, selfless decision, and we don’t take that lightly. We are committed to honoring her story and the unique identity of the child. We will always speak of her with love, truth, and gratitude.

We’ve long dreamed of growing our family, and adoption has become such a meaningful part of that dream. Though the road here has had its share of heartbreak, we see how God has used every step to lead us to this moment. It’s with full hearts and open hands that we step into adoption.

We can’t wait to share our lives with another child, and they will grow up in a home filled with faith, laughter, and unconditional love. They will always know where they came from and of the incredible love it took to bring them into the world. No matter the level of openness you’re comfortable with, we will honor you and your role in their story—always.

With deep respect, 

Cody & Cynthia